How do people void the pursuer-distancer pattern in your relationship from Gottman theory?
The reality is that everyone needs both autonomy and connection. Relationships require give and take and asking for what you need. Understanding and addressing the attachment needs of your partner during times of relationship stress can stop the pursuer/distancer pattern.So when the pursuit simply STOPS, the distancer may suddenly become the anxious partner trying to re-engage a disengaged one. ... They are anxious about the distance their partner has created and take it personally. They criticize their partner for being emotionally unavailable. They believe they have superior values.
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