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Question 3
Hamish works in a community centre. Arnold comes in each week to the centre. He is 86 and has just lost his wife so he spends time in the Men’s Shed program. Hamish likes Arnold – he very much reminds him of his grandfather who died last year. Hamish learns a lot from Arnold about how carpentry was done “in the old days” He shows Hamish how do to all the different joints and how to French polish furniture.
One week Arnold doesn’t turn up to the program. Hamish hears that Arnold has died suddenly. Hamish really misses Arnold – he is surprised at how strong his feelings of loss are.
c)What are some symptoms that Hamish may experience following Arnold’s death? (List three)

Question 3 b
d)What are four self-care techniques that Hamish could use to help him to deal with his loss?

Answer 1

Answer c: Some of the symptoms that the Hamish may experience following Arnold’s death are:

• Depression
• Shock which may includes severe headache.
• Unable to focus or concentrate.
• Low thinking ability amfor certain period of time.
• Grief.

Answer d: The four self care techniques may include:

• It is important to accept the reality of the loss.
• Indulge in the process of the grief and pain.
• Indulge in the activities which could provide mind diversion.
• Increase social interaction.