Question

Why do people feel to move towards other people most often as a defense strategy?

Answer 1

Every person is not having same attitude as the few strong people. They feel that they can not solve or overcome their problems and obstacles on their own. These people also feel very safe and relaxed when they are around other people.

This is similar to the feeling of a baby needs mom to be around them always. But this is acceptable only upto some age and after that they are grown up, should do everything and decide everytime on their own. This is how they will manage to stand alone when there is a need. If they are not practiced or not ready to practice, then they require someone to help them out in all their difficult situations.

This shows that person don't want to come out of their comfort zone.