Do we have literature in the United States that focuses on the issues presented in this week's reading (adultery or imprisonment ) Please offer an example consider past and present-day American work of literature, including films, television shows, and novels . Think about how these American works present these issues of adultery and imprisonment. Use critical thinking
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Adultery is defined as sexual relations between a married person
and anyone except
their spouse. Historically, it has carried harsh punishments,
primarily directed at women.
While cheating wives could be killed for the act, men would often
be given much more lenient
punishments, attitudes in the US towards adultery have been mixed.
20 states still have anti-adultery
laws on the books. Punishments can range from minor fines in
Maryland, to years in prison
in Michigan. Military personnel can also face dishonorable
discharge for committing adultery.
For civilians, prosecution for adultery is extremely rare. The last
publicized case was
in the early ‘90s. For the most part, adultery laws are left on the
books because communities
see them as enforcements to society’s moral standards. Major
decisions from the US Supreme
Court in 2003 and 2015 have severely restricted the government’s
ability to prosecute adults
for their sexual and marital preferences.
There is an old joke about The Seventh Commandment, Do Not
Commit Adultery.
Moses comes down from Mount Sinai, and announces: I have good news
and bad news.
The good news is that I got Him down to ten. The bad news is that
adultery stays.
The joke is telling. The prohibition on a married person having
sexual relations with
anyone except his or her spouse may be, for many people, the most
consistently difficult
of the Ten Commandments to observe. The reasons shouldn't be hard
to guess.
One is the enormous power of the sex drive. It can be very hard to
keep in check
for the entirety of one's marriage. especially when an attractive
outsider makes him or herself
sexually or romantically available. Another reason is the human
desire to love and be loved.
For normal people, there is no more powerful emotion than love. If
one falls in
love with someone while married, it takes great effort not to
commit adultery with that person.
And if we add in the unfortunate circumstance of a loveless
marriage, adultery becomes even
more difficult to resist. That's why the joke with which I began is
funny
because it reflects truth.
it is indispensable to forming and maintaining higher
civilization. Adultery threatens the very building block
of the civilization that the Ten Commandments seeks to create. That
building block
is the family a married father and mother and their children.
Anything that threatens the
family unit is prohibited in the Bible. Adultery is one example.
Not honoring one's father
and mother is another. And the prohibition on injecting any
sexuality into the family unit incest. is a third example.
Why is the family so important? Because without it, social
stability is impossible.
Because without it, the passing on of society's values from
generation to generation is impossible.
Because commitment to a wife and children makes men more
responsible and mature.
Because, more than anything else, family meets most women's deepest
emotional and material needs.
And nothing comes close to the family in giving children a secure
and stable childhood.
And why does adultery threaten the family? The most obvious reason
is that sex with someone
other than one's spouse can all too easily lead to either or both
spouses leaving the marriage.
Adultery should not automatically lead to divorce; but it often
does.
There is another reason adultery can destroy a family. It can
lead to pregnancy
and then to the birth of a child. That child will in almost all
cases start out life with no family
, meaning no father and mother married to each other to call his or
her own.
And if adultery doesn't destroy a family, it almost always does
terrible harm to a marriage.
Aside from the sense of betrayal and loss of trust that it causes,
it means that the
adulterous partner lives a fraudulent life. When a husband or wife
is having sex with
someone other than their spouse, their thoughts are constantly
about that other person
and about how to deceive their spouse. The life of deception that
an adulterous affair necessarily
entails inevitably damages a marriage even if the betrayed spouse
is unaware of the affair.
Finally, the Commandment prohibiting adultery doesn't come with an
asterisk
saying that adultery is OK if both spouses agree to it. Spouses who
have extramarital sex with the
permission of their husband or wife may not spouse's feelings, but
they are still harming
the institution of marriage. And protecting the family, not
protecting spouses from emotional pain,
Many marriages, sadly, are troubled. And it is not for any of us
to stand in judgment
of others' behavior in this realm. No one knows what goes on in
anyone else's marriage.
And if we did, we might often well understand why one or the other
sought love outside the marriage.
But no higher civilization can be made or can endure that condones
adultery.
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