Question

Jordan, Zach, and Helena are now in their 50s and have one remaining living parent, Dean. Their mother, Leigh, passed away 10 months ago unexpectedly from a stroke. Their dad was diagnosed with Stage 4 colon cancer that metastasized to the liver just three months ago, and Dean is on a rapid decline.

The siblings are all in different stages of grief and all have different relationships with their father. Helena (the youngest) never forgave Dean for his midlife behavior, although Dean and Leigh did not divorce and seemed to form a stronger relationship after Dean’s midlife issues were resolved with time and counseling. Zach was the middle child and always felt like the middle child; he was very close with his mother and is still deep in grief over losing her so recently and so suddenly. Jordan was extremely close with his father and considered him his best friend. Dean is very anxious and afraid of dying; however, he does claim that he is eager to reunite with the love of his life—Leigh.

What type of grief reactions are Jordan, Zach, and Helena experiencing? Explain the reaction types you selected to characterize each. Which sibling do you feel is going to have the hardest time recovering emotionally from these losses and why?

Answer 1

Types of grief-

1. Anticipatory grief - it starts very uch before the person you love pass away. Simce father is declining day by day , children will be facing this kind of grief .

2. Delayed grief - this is faced by zack since he was very close to his mother and is still facing grief .

3. Cumilative grief - mother expired few months ago and now their father is not well. This type of grief is when there are multiple losses . Children may be feeling this because their only parent left is also getting weak day by day.

Jordan will have the most difficult time due to these losses because he has alreay lost mother and now father is also weakening day bt day . And he is very close to his father so he will be the most suffered person amongst all in this situation.