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Heart or mind? which one of the two?

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Asked at 2011.04.24 20:53:00
I am in a dilemma, my mind tells me that there is almost no chance and if there is is less that 0.5% but my heart makes things look like I have more chance than I actually think, but I know that`s not the case. Which one do you follow? If I follow my heart and my mind it`s true then I will probably have great pain in my life for few months more. If I follow my mind, I will never know whether my heart was true and I will have regret for a long time. If I learn that my heart was right that would be something very very very bad to me.

So What do I follow? my heart or mind? I know this decision it`s exclusively my decision, but what do you do in hard moments like this ?
answer More Cow Bell  Answered at 2011.04.24 20:53:00
Follow your heart and you will regret it. Follow your mind and you will regret it. Life is setup that way. The philosophy of love is illogical. I stayed 17 years in a failed marriage. I knew early on it was doomed in my mind anyway. My heart was blind and believed in her. I regret some of those years but I would not change a thing.

The character Spock on Star Trek was based on the duality of being human. Just as men are grounded in the logical right, women are grounded in the emotional left. The idea is to become whole meeting in the middle. That does not mean being a Tom Cruise jumping on the couch or Stone Cold hard ***.

Don't be a tool or a jerk. If she is not there for you even though you are there for her kick her to the curb fast!
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