Question

Doug and Meredith are getting divorced, and they have two boys in elementary school. Explain what they can do to limit the amount of problems their boys will have with this impending divorce.

Answer 1

Some factors for parents to consider when children experience divorce in the family:

• There should be as little conflict as possible between Meredith and Doug, especially in front of their children. They should also avoid criticising each other.
• If Meredith and Doug are entering into a new relationship, they must be very cautious and ensure that this person is open to accepting the rest of the family.
• The children should be made to understand about why Meredith and Doug are getting divorced in a sensitive fashion. They should also be made aware that getting a divorce does not imply that Meredith and Doug’s relationship is completely coming to an end.
• The time each parent spends with the children needs to be as equitable as possible.
• When spending time with one of the parents, children should feel free to contact the other parent if desired, and to have their privacy respected.