Question

can you make these paragraph with easy words to uderstanting better please

What enables close relationship?

There are following factors which involves in the enabling close relationship.

Attachment

Equity

Self Disclosure

Attachment:

According to Cherry (2009) Love is something related to the biological essence? People are belonging to each other and have adaptive behaviors. Attachment is related to cooperation between human and society. The nature of the attachment and love varies in the close relationships, like parent and child, friends, between spouses or lovers. Loving attachment is something related to the mutual understanding, giving and receiving support with enjoying feeling of being loved by someone. Love is directly relate to the attachment styles. Attachment styles are of following types.

Secure attachment

Avoidant attachment

Anxious attachment

Secure Attachment: It is the attachment styles which is rooted on the base of the trust and leads towards the intimate relationship. For example, when a mother placed her child in the strange situation in the presence of the mother they played comfortably and happily. If mother leaves them they feel uncomfortable and feel distress. When they saw their mother again they feel sense of security and start play again. Same pattern of attachment is followed in the adult attachment patterns.

Dismissive and fearful attachment: both of these styles are related to the avoidance. These types of relationship styles are related to the distrust of other and marked the fear of rejection from others (Sternberg & Barnes,1988).

Anxious Attachment: This type of attachment which is marked by the sense of one’s own unworthiness and anxiety, ambivalence and possessiveness. Adults with this attachment styles are less trusting and more possessive and jealous. Therefore they break up repeatedly with the same person.

Answer 1

• Attachment attempts to explain the importance of the emotional bonds that we create with other people.Childhood and adolescent experiences condition people to their attachment style. Kids generally attach to their care provider.This is a result of human evolution.Attachments happen with different people inlcuding children,parents,partners,friends,every attachment displays emotional and social bond between people.Attachment at every level is important to develop strong relationships in life.
  
• A secure relationship is a relationship where the people involved trust one another.A secure attachment is an advantage for a whole life time Most children develop relationships with their parents that make them feel safe and give them a sense of security and confidence.The parent's sensitivity to the needs of the child is a major determinant in whether a secure or insecure attachment will develop.
• Parents of children with an avoidant attachment tend to be emotionally unavailable or unresponsive to them a good deal of the time. They disregard or ignore their children’s needs, and can be especially rejecting when their child is hurt or sick. These parents also discourage crying and encourage premature independence in their children.
• Ambivalent/anxious attachment style is insecure types. This basically means that you didn't get what you needed at the right time as a child. For some reason (most probably the parenting your own parents received) your parents couldn't respond effectively enough to your needs for you to learn that they were reliable.