Question

Consider John Allen Lee's styles of love. Which one do you think you are? What do you think your partner should be to give that budding relationship a good chance? And when that relationship really gets going, and you've got your first fight, how are you going to establish a solid foundation for effective communication? What are the warning signs that this relationship is about to fail? How do you stop it? I recommend that you use a single example from your own experience, and analyze it from the new point of view you should have developed from reading the chapter. If you cannot think of a relationship (or do not want to talk about an existing one), just imagine one (your chance to imagine your perfect partner if you'd like, and even here, there will be fights).

Answer 1

According to John Alan Lee, there are three primary types of love-

1- eros- romantic love

2- ludos- game player

3- storge- friendship

there are also 3 secondary types-

4- pragma- (ludos+storge)- practical love

5- mania- (eros+ludos)-obsession

6- agape - (eros+ storge)- selflessness

• according of lee- my love is storge type, my partner is also storge type.
• According to my relationship, If we would have our first fight, then we will talk about the problem and will solve the problem together.
• the warning sign for this relationship would be lack of interest for each other.
• for stoping this we will talk about it.
• I am in relationship for last four years and we know each other since our childhood, but we never had any fight.