Question

1. Discuss the characteristics of a functional family, then juxtapose these with one where addictive behavior such as compulsive gambling or (any other addiction) enters the family system. 2. Explain how the systems perspective has advanced since the early days of classic systems theory. How did mothers end up getting the blame for the strange behavior in the child? 3. Discuss healing work from the strengths perspective (“rename, reframe, reclaim”). 4 . Describe some of the exercises that can be used to engage family members.

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Answer 1

1. Main characteristics of functional family:

• Safety is a priority.
• Parents ensure that they create and maintain an environment in which the family members are physically and emotionally safe.
• Parents are attentive enough to their children that they are able to protect them from harm.

Gambling addict: Families are organized around roles, rules, rituals, boundaries, and hierarchy. This organizational structure serves to promote the well-being of the family and the happiness of its members. But having an addict in the family distorts this structure and family members assume roles that naturally don't belong to them. Instead of living authentic lives, members abandon their identity and needs, and get enmeshed in the life of their addicted loved one.