Question

Discuss your experiences and knowledge in the differences in behaviors, attitudes, expectations regarding love and other considerations in intimate relationships. Do you think you will marry? Why or why not? (200-300 WORDS)

Answer 1

The first thing one experiences in a relationship is physical attraction. Although it's the old school of thought, it's still valid today. In the initial stage people are driven by the physical attraction and tries to maintain the relationship thus appreciating all the differences but as time moves, whatever differences they appreciated becomes the fighting point because by this time their interest in the physical body would have disappeared. The next stage is where they come into contact with their behaviours and attitudes while living together or because they spent more time together. What was once fun becomes irritating. When people are in love they keep asking their partners to talk and enjoy their conversation but as time pass it would become very irritating and they would say could you please be silent for a while.
There are two things that are most important to any intimate relationship, money and sex. When two people are able to satisfy each other in sex, the chances are more that they would stick together. The second thing is money and if they have enough money to live together, the chances are more that they continue their relationship. When children come, they would still like a threat to the intimate relationship because the couple will have less time to spend together. It's all about managing and balancing sex, money, children and work that would decide whether an intimate relationship will last or not.
I will definitely marry because it's the process and I would like to see myself time and again on this earth through my children.