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Why do people persist on adopting from foreign countries and having their own children?
Asked By Bettas<3,Last Answer By Yellow At 2011.04,1 Answers

Isn't the World already over-populated with unwanted children as it is? Why do people go to foreign countries to adopt children there when there's children in their own country suffering? Why do people persist on having children of their own? Is it because their selfish and want it to have their physical features and look like them? Why can't they just adopt? There's even new born babies that need to be adopted! Why does it matter if you birthed them or not? Love is love. Wouldn't you love them the same if you birthed them or not!? Domt the men that want to "carry on the family name" realize that childbirth is not a picnic? Are all peoples motives selfish? Please explain this to me

What is the Problem People have with Madonna and Angelina Jolie Adopting children in Africa?
Asked By Werner,Last Answer By Serenity71 At 2010.06,1 Answers

I live in Africa and know that some children would be better off with celebrities in the USA than over here. Every day in Africa 34 000 children die. That is equivalent to 500 bus loads of children, every day.

Why then do people refer to people like Angelina Jolie and Madonna in such a negative manner? What has happened to applauding a good thing? Please enlighten me because maybe I am just confused.

Most suitable for Chinese people living in foreign countries which
Asked By Ivy Bush,Last Answer By Adah George At 2011.05,1 Answers

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Why do people bother going on holiday to foreign countries...then get drunk?
Asked By Rolyn R,Last Answer By Bear At 2011.03,1 Answers

It would be cheaper to stay at home and get drunk. I have never understood the mentality of people who go away and get bladdered every day of their holidays.

Do some people in foreign countries ever treat a Canadian rudely mistaking them to be American?
Asked By apple picking pirate,Last Answer By n/a At 2011.03,1 Answers

"some" is the key word, because as an american i am well aware of the stereotypes.

Do celebrities like Madonna and Brangelina help or hurt 3rd World countries by adopting kids?
Asked By Eartha W,Last Answer By ~ßinαry Per$uašiøns~ At 2010.05,1 Answers

Save The Children Fund seems to think that they are hurting both the kids and the community

Would it not be both more helpful and more humane to use some of thei money to dig wells and buy seed so that everyone in that village is able to keep their own children?

Are these babies just the ultimate souvenier of an exotic holiday?

How well are they kept in touch with their own families and their ownj cultural heritage? How will they feel about this as they grow up?

Does anyone else think gay couples adopting children is wrong?
Asked By Scott Clements,Last Answer By Display Name At 2011.04,1 Answers

This is an ongoing debate and it never seems to go away. Most people Id say do think its wrong but do gay people not see why its not approved by others?
I dont really care what gay people do to each other but when a child comes into the equation I think people need to step in. No child chooses their parents but thats just the law of nature. When adopting parents choose a child then its an obligation to the child that the adopting parents provide a safe environment, opportunities and education, and that the child grows up knowing they a loved and have support. Safe means the child is safe from any sort of confusion at any stage of life. If the child so happens to be gay it may not be such a concern but with most cases the child will be straight and that is likely to cause problems. Is it fair to the child that they should have to be faced with this problem when they reach their teens or early adulthood? Even into adulthood Id think a heterosexual would struggle to accept this.
Then their is the fairness of the child being isolated from others and most likely bullied for having "freak" gay parents. This will happen which ever way you want to look at it. The question is it fair on the child to be exposed to this alienation.
Im very opposed to the idea of gay couples adopting. I dont care who is gay or what they do. I have gay friends and doesnt bother me. But an innocent child deserves a fair chance at life and to grow up proud of themselves and have role models. Gay couples cant provide this.
In the end I think gay couples only want children to adopt for their own comfort and not for the childs. They may argue all they like but the truth is a child does not have a fair chance at life with gay parents. If gay people refuse to see that its their own selfish agenda.
Opinions?

Truth ---- foreign trade enterprises in foreign countries Why not open the site
Asked By Chaplin White,Last Answer By lucy liu At 2011.05,1 Answers

Foreign exchange control in China is a country, will now send money to foreign countries, what rules?
Asked By Wendy Zhu,Last Answer By Anne ChurchillChu At 2011.05,1 Answers

Foreign exchange control in China is a country, will now send money to foreign countries, what rules?

Why cant people see that adopting kids is taking advantage of people with "less than'?
Asked By Candy Corn,Last Answer By ♪ Rachel - Applehead ♫ At 2011.04,1 Answers

isn't that wrong? i really dont understand how people, caring people can do this with a pure heart. i dont believe that mothers would give up there kids if they didn't have "less than" the folks doing the adoptting, do you?

Why is it OK for people from rich countries to live where they want but not for those from poor countries?
Asked By a,Last Answer By hannibal61577 At 2010.02,1 Answers

If you live in a poor country it is impossible to get a visa to live where you want... but if you are from a rich country you can travel whereever you want.

All the time Americans and Western Europeans move to poorer countries because it is cheaper for them..

But they complain when a Mexican wants to live and work in the USA to improve themselves.

Why it is not fair and double standards

Do you think adopting a family member is better or worse than just regular adopting?
Asked By Sтяαиĝєя Іи ІиđϊÎ,Last Answer By minimouse68 At 2011.04,1 Answers

For example, let's say your aunt and uncle will be openly adopting your child because you are unable to. I would love to hear your opinions. I think it would be personally worse for me seeing my baby call my own aunt and uncle "Mom" and "Dad" in front of me at family reunions, etc

I am really perplexed. Why do people say "We tried adopting in this country but it fell through" ....?
Asked By @@@@@,Last Answer By Nurse Autumn Intactivist NFP At 2010.06,1 Answers

....when there are over 150,000 children needing homes THIS MINUTE in this country, waiting in fostercare.
And the cost of adoption is almost FREE .....

I know some write that they foster and the kids go back to the bios and their hearts get broke, yadda, yadda, ....BUT there are many children of all races, ages and both genders that are "legally free" for adoption, that this excuse does not make sense.....

So, does "we tried adopting but it fell through mean.........
1) We tried getting the BABY and that fell through
2) We weren't happy with the selection and so it fell through

Or what ???????

Thoughts on this, as I have seen this comment used frequently.

Why are the same people who are against abortion also against a gay couple adopting a child?
Asked By Deirdre O,Last Answer By Twosocks At 2010.10,1 Answers

I am really perplexed. Why do people say "We tried adopting in this country but it fell through" ....?
Asked By @@@@@,Last Answer By Nurse Autumn Intactivist NFP At 2011.04,1 Answers

....when there are over 150,000 children needing homes THIS MINUTE in this country, waiting in fostercare.
And the cost of adoption is almost FREE .....

I know some write that they foster and the kids go back to the bios and their hearts get broke, yadda, yadda, ....BUT there are many children of all races, ages and both genders that are "legally free" for adoption, that this excuse does not make sense.....

So, does "we tried adopting but it fell through mean.........
1) We tried getting the BABY and that fell through
2) We weren't happy with the selection and so it fell through

Or what ???????

Thoughts on this, as I have seen this comment used frequently.

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